What to Do with Alone Time

Not long ago, I wrote about how important ‘alone time‘ is in life and all the benefits it provides.  Most of us agree, that for those of us who really enjoy our alone time, we often don’t get enough.  And when we do get it,  we are often left not knowing what to do with solo time.

Every person, obviously, has different interests.  But, regardless of what you personally like to do, here are some good ways to spend time with yourself:

  1. Go for a Walk: This isn’t necessarily a workout type of walk.  Walking alone, even at a leisurely pace, helps you clear your mind, clear your thoughts and think through problems, issues or concerns you may be facing.
  2. Go to the Beach/Park/Lake: Being in nature, gives you a multi-sensory way to decompress and relax.  You smell the beautiful, fresh air.  You are visually inspired by the natural beauty with which you surround yourself.  And, you become hypnotized by sounds of the ocean waves crashing, seagulls squawking or a distant waterfall.
  3. Read a Book: Reading provides you with a way to get away from your hectic life and learn something new, fall in love or laugh.  It is like a vacation away from life.
  4. Take a Class: Taking classes on something you want to learn, whether it be cooking, a new language, dancing or rock-climbing, is highly rewarding.  First, it expands your horizons and gives you knowledge about interesting things.  Second, it allows you to discover new things about yourself.
  5. Take a Drive: Taking a drive allows you to explore new places, discover new things and meet new people.  You can listen to your favorite tunes, and stop along the journey whenever you are inspired to do so.

Obviously, there are a lot of other things you can do.  The point is, do whatever you enjoy and have fun.  What do you like to do when you get in your alone time?

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  • Hannah

    Ooh…I just read that book too! It was a great use of my ‘alone time :)

  • Chris Marchell

    Brett,

    I never have a problem finding something to do in my “alone time.” I just finished a novel by a Cornellian, Junot Diaz, titled “The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao”. It won the Pulitzer Prize in 2007 and The National Book Critics Circle Award. It is a gritty, witty imersion into the stories of the people of Santo Domingo during the time of the not-so-benevolent (read genocidal) dictator Trujillo (who ruled from 1930 to 1961) and the impact on the lives of “dominicanos” in the U.S. then and today. It is told through the eyes of three generations of a dysfunctional family, including the grossly overweight nerd-writer and sci-fi game addict, Oscar, who pines, not-so-discreetly and heartbreakingly for just about every woman he meets, to (almost) no avail.

    The text is littered with Spanish words that I was dying to look up but couldn’t put the book down long enough to do so. But somehow it didn’t matter. The voice is strong enough and the context telling so while it wasn’t easy to guess, after a while I got the hang of it. Plus, I was wondering if some of the words would even be in a dictionary – they are probably x-rated, given the story. In any case, I plan to have a Spanish-English dictionary at hand for a second reading (yes, it’s that good).

    Chris